Let's prepare for change, shall we?
6 months left, target is to write at least 10 issues! Let's do this.
50-50?
I came across this thing that said the "50-50" thing is nothing but an invitation to the problem; what you need is effective communication, which means your ability to tell your partner that you can only provide 30% today, and your partner can choose to cover 70% or just understand to give you your space, and it goes both ways.
Once you and your partner start doing it, everything starts falling into place.
I liked it. It made sense to me. So, here it is for everyone who is reading.
I also firmly believe in "do it for them even if they won’t do it for you." Why? Because you should be doing your task—it could be love, respect, or being loyal. Your task is not to worry about what others will do for you but to know what you are willing to do with honest intent.
I know it hurts sometimes. I know it does. Remind yourself to be patient. Someone who gives out so much love will eventually find a lot of love in this world. Your life on this planet is all about balance.
If you give love, you will get love. If you give hate, you will get it too.
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Hi everyone, How are you all?
I think I overshared in the last newsletter, and as much as I want to shake that feeling, I can’t. I wanted to discontinue the newsletter, but something nice I read today made me want to write. So, here I am blabbering.
You know you’ll meet some people who will have a lot of respect and likeness for you. You will have respect and likeness for them as well. But the place that likeness is coming from will be different, which matters in the end. At least, that’s what I think.
Do they like you because they have no one else to rely on? Do they like you because you came and their lives got better? Do they like you because they could find versions that they didn’t know existed before?
They like you because, and they love you despite. Once you know why they like you, you will understand what part of them they struggle with.
We are simple creatures. We give hints all the time. However, we are too blind to see those hints. All we see is what we want to see, not what others want us to see. I remember cutting my Paa off three times because I thought I knew what he wanted to show. No, I didn’t. All I knew was what I wanted to see.
This is what happens when you get into any kind of argument. You say you want to see, but you close your eyes and then complain about not being able to see.
Next time, open your eyes, focus on what needs your attention, and shut up your surrounding voices.
This is the short one because I am building my habit of writing again. Small steps. One step at a time!
Also, how do you all deal with changes? I am struggling again; any tips, hacks, or stories are appreciated.
Like always, thanks for reading! Tell me how you are doing here or in the DM.